Wednesday, December 24, 2008
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Happy Birthday Emily!
Saturday, December 6, 2008
For all those who have anything to do with children
http://www.joelsjourney.org/index.html
I know I'm an absolute weirdo for rear-facing my 22 month old and my 4 year old. I even plan to add a third rear-facing baby to our vehicle. I would rather have my kids alive and well than to forward face them for "convenience's sake"
Thursday, December 4, 2008
Wednesday, December 3, 2008
Happy Birthday Karen!
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Update
The kids took two sessions of swimming lessons. Emily made it to level 3 and Caitlyn to 4. Now we have 4 kids in 4 different levels. I signed them up for January.
The cat had an abscess+- due to the cats who attack her. The vet fixed her up and now I am supposed to give her medicine and ointment twice a day. It is very challenging to give a cat suspension meds. I am perplexed as to why it is pink and flavored bubble gum. The cat has been indoors, although now she is supposed to go out for the day. Wednesday night we leave and the cat will have to be left out all the time with no medicine. I hope she'll be okay. The neighbor will feed her as usual.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Blackout
I should probably mention it is my birthday today. Aaron gave me a card that said "Let's eat out." I hadn't made dinner, so that sounded good. But he told the waitress that it was my birthday. Just as I thought we were preparing to leave I got a sombrero on my head!!! I've got to get him on his next birthday. I feel old to have hit the big 3 0. My grandma and parents gave me twice the usual birthday gift and we are not in dire need of money this year. So, now I get to have fun thinking of 100 ways to spend money on myself. Still, I keep thinking about car seats...
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Friday, October 3, 2008
PLEASE, stay rear-facing past 12mos/20lbs
PLEASE, for your children's sake, consider leaving them in REAR-FACING (RF) car seats as longs as you can. Although it is "suggested" by many people and organizations, that you can turn them forward facing at 1 yr / 20 lbs, and seats are made to accommodate that, it doesn't mean they will not be subjected to cervical spine injuries in an accident. Sure, it'll hold their body in place, as it did for my grandson. But their head is thrown violently forward!! Actually, if you do your homework, front facing children are "75% more likely to be injured" in a crash ( http://www.carseatsite.com/rf.htm ).
I am Grandpa, and here's my personal view. My 18 mo old grandson, Joel, was injured in a front impact car crash 4 weeks ago. He is a "beefy" boy, weighing in at 34lbs and about 39" tall. According to his mom, the doctor told her it was "okay" to put him in a front facing car seat, because he was a "big boy". So she did. And he was securely strapped in the rear seat. The car hit a tree, for reasons unknown, at city speed limit of approx 35 mph.
At the accident scene, the EMT crew took Joel out of the car while in the car seat and all, and transported him to the hospital. They had to "bag" him at the scene to restart his breathing. The true miracle is that the ambulance was driving by, and some people flagged it down. They didn't even get time to call 911. You can bet God had his hand in that!!! they were on the scene in about 60 seconds!!
Below are some photos of Joel, before and after. YOU decide whats best for your child.......not anyone else!!! He sustained dislocated top 2 vertebrae in his spine (C-1 & C-2). Some of the doctors put it in very simple terms...his skull, internally, became detached from his body... and was basically held on with his skin.
In the last few weeks, I've scoured the internet to find these facts:
* a young child's head is approx 25% of his/her bodyweight. If that were true of adults, my head (I'm 220lbs) would weigh 55lbs! as it is, an adults head is only about 6% of their body weight. So, kids are very top-heavy.
* Norway, Sweden, Denmark, Finland recommend rear facing until 4 yrs old
* look on You Tube at the crash test videos of front facing vs. rear facing. you'll be amazed.
YouTube - Crash Test - http://babyproducts.about.com/od/car...ear_facing.htm
* if a young child's spine is "stretched" a 1/4 of an inch, it could result in total paralysis or death.
* and this is amazing! There was an article published in Pediatrics (the journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics) earlier this year that states: ""A recent analysis of the protection provided in rear-facing compared with forward-facing car safety seats has revealed that children under the age of 2 years are 75% less likely to die or sustain serious injury when they are in a rear-facing seat.2 This finding was true regardless of direction of the crash, even those crashes with side impact, which typically are the most severe."
"Parents may be helped to understand the importance of using the convertible car safety seat in the rear-facing position longer than 1 year if they are counseled that children are 5 times safer than when riding in a forward-facing seat into the second year of life."
After hearing about that, I contacted the AAP via email, and asked what their position is on this issue. Their response was "While this was published in the Academy's journal, it does not necessarily constitute AAP policy" and "Because riding rear-facing does provide significantly more protection to children's heads, necks, and spines, the Academy does recommend it for as long as possible, but the only minimum we have set is 12 months/20 pounds. This policy statement is under revision but is current at this time."
The policy statement is under revision.... at this time??
Do you're home work folks!!! Oh, and you'll also find out that in the USA, rear facing seats only go up to about 35lbs. In Europe, whose testing standards seem to exceed US standards (http://daddytypes.com/2007/01/05/con...e_car_seat.php ), the RF car seats can be purchased up to 55 lbs. AND, made by the same manufacturers as in the US.
So, the question is, why can't we get them?? And don;t worry about legroom. check out these larger RF seats: http://forum.nybaktmamma.com/showthread.php?t=524428
Sure, they can break a leg in a violent crash, but I think bones are easier to fix than a broken neck!!! Heck, it's better to mount a portable CD player in the back window shelf and let them watch it, then to risk their life! Think about it....their body is strapped down to a car seat that is strapped down, and the car comes to an abrupt stop!! where is their head going to go? FORWARD, and at a tremendous velocity!! The back of their neck/ spinal cord is vulnerable to injury.
But the BIG question is....... for you to decide. I know you want to see their darling faces. But you don't want to see them in a halo.
I know this is a very long blog, but if it saves one child...or one family, the agony of what we've endured these last 4 weeks, it is worth the read!! The pic's below are about six weeks apart. he was eating cake by himself....very cute.
And now, he is is headed for intense physical therapy. he does move his fingers and his legs, but he doesn't pick up his arms. The therapy people are very optimistic, given the movement in his extremities. Doctors believe it was some compression of the shoulder nerves from the car seat straps acroos his collar bone area. You had to see those big, wide bruise marks. Again...front facing will do it.!!
If you want to see photos of Joel, before and after, visit: http://forum.carseatdata.org/convertible-seats/1827-rear-facing-is-best-true-story.html
I welcome all comments, as I would like to see: the FF threshold raised to 24 months, and largers RF seats available in the US. Thank you
Thursday, October 2, 2008
More car seat pictures
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Because I'm obsessed
So, to know the full story... I had different harnessed seats in the car, but I came across a problem because I wanted Karen to be able to use the rear-facing seat when Benjamin is not in the car. The kids, however had to have the harness straps in different slots in the seat that was in there. (The Avenue) The two seats that they can use the same strap positions are the tribute and the scenera. I used to have the scenera as the rear-facing seat, but Karen begged for her pink seat back. I thought to call Dorel to see if I could buy a pink cover for the Avenue, but they are not yet selling replacement covers. So, I put the tribute rear-facing, but the avenue wouldn't fit forward facing. Then I tried the titan and that wouldn't fit. So, I brought over the dirty, not yet expired cargo and it fit- barely though, so I switched it to the outside and it fit great. So, I took it in and cleaned it up. That setup is 46 inches across! The cargo expires in December. Also, the tribute only goes to 30 pounds rear-facing and Karen is 28 pounds. I hope that in two months either Benjamin grows in his torso or I can buy a pink cover for the Avenue. Or Karen may just lose her pink seat again.
Here's Eric in the Titan.
The big news of the day is that the National Highway Safety something or other released the results of its booster study from 2007. It listed 13 booster seats as "not recommended" as well as several that were "best bets" and "good bets". All their testing amounted to was sitting a 6 year old sized dummy in the seat in a vehicle and determining whether the belt fit well, good, or bad. There was no crash testing, so they did not even consider side impact protection. Most of the "best bets" are backless boosters. The new Recaro Vivo, Britax Frontier, Graco Nautilus, and Sunshine Kids' Monterey were not yet out and therefore not tested. Our fisher price booster (the one in the picture) rated as a "best bet". I think it is because it has an infinite headrest/belt guide adjuster. That seat has been discontinued and costs only $30. I wonder if everyone will buy them now! Also, the Britax Parkway tested in that category and is also discontinued. I was considering getting one sometime.
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Update
On Saturday we went out to look at vehicles. First we tried out a 2004 Chevy Astro. I was sorely dissapointed in it. There are two positions with lap-only belts and no head rests. There are no tether anchors for those positions, so they could only be used for rear-facing car seats. Also it was a pain and a struggle to get the 3 car seats installed. There are only 2 sets of latch in outer positions and that was a painful struggle too.
Next, we tried out the Sienna. It didn't take long before we were in love. All size rear positions have locking shoulder belts, headrests, and tether anchors. Five positions have latch. The very back windows slide down. There are air vents in the way back. They also have cupholders in the back too. The trunk is depressed, so it can actually hold a lot more than it looks. Also, the added safety, great drive, and such were great too. So, we have to be patient, save out money, and then we will buy a Sienna. I'm really excited. I have never liked our Aerostar. It is a big old pain, but I am grateful for it because it allowed us to actually be able to save up money to buy a fancy Sienna.
My lovely five car seats. Eric's is next to Emily's pink one.
Monday, September 8, 2008
Thursday, September 4, 2008
My wild boy
I went out to the valley to pick up Caitlyn's found camera from Girl Scout camp. Then went over to Sears to see about getting a car seat for a kid in town who is 2 and has outgrown his carseat by weight. I got the lowest price car seat that harnesses to 50 pounds. Eric barely fit in it, so I'm hoping the boy can fit till he's 4 years old. Now my worry is how to get mom to accept the seat. Maybe I should offer it on freecycle.
Monday, September 1, 2008
I won!
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
The kids have grown!
We got the fisher price booster yesterday and I am a bit dissapointed in it- or at least what I've read about it. It is really 14 inches wide- only 2 less than the graco boosters we have. Also, Eric is the only one who can use it at its thinnest.
So, what I have decided to do to the car seats (for now) is this:
Give Eric a booster in the van pending good sitting. Put the radian in the car for the older 3 to share. (They can sit in the middle and there will be no buckling issues.) Also in the car is the rear-facing tribute for Ben and the forward facing titan for Karen. In the van we have the new avenue for Ben and Karen's pink scenera. I'm sure this is all gobbelty-gook for most, but oh well. Here's Eric in his new booster.
Last Thursday Emily danced for the senior home. She was graceful and is a natural dancer.
On Friday we met mom's friend and went out to Cottonwood canyon. We had a lovely time. The kids got to go out on a canoe for the first time in their lives.
We walked around the lake and guess who decided to be the "trail boss"?
Saturday we went to Lagoon. It was crazy with a million people, but also fun.
Monday, August 11, 2008
One down, one more to go
Isn't it nice? It was a pain in the patootie to install. I need a pool noodle. Oh and there are 15 inches left on the other side of the car. The booster seat should fit nicely. I am so excited! It is on its way.
Emily lost another tooth today. This time Aaron had to save it from the basement sink drain. Apparently she was trying to pull it out. I must remember to get the tooth fairy to come.
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Caitlyn's Party
One girl sewed Caitlyn a quilt. (Her mom helped.)
It is so refreshing to not get junk at a birthday party. I tried not to give junk as favors. I did give out most of last year's Halloween candy. (The hard candy that doesn't go bad with age.) The kids played a game picking up glass rocks in the pool. They kept them. Then we found some pink jump ropes with wooden handles on clearance. My kids think the jump ropes are the best. I'm going to take back the spares and get something boyish for Eric.
I sold the booster seat today! Then I bought the Fisher price one. The kids had a hard time deciding between silver and tan. They ended up with silver.
Here's a pic of Karen and her piggy tails.
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Wheeling and Dealing
Emily has been wheeling and dealing at dance. Her tap shoes were too small, so she traded her teacher for bigger ones. Then her ballet shoe go a hole in it from too much wear. (She loves her ballet shoes.) She took Caitlyn's ballet shoes to trade for a good pair. I have let it out that Caitlyn won't be doing dance this year. Viola lessons are twice the cost of dance. Perhaps when she gets into orchestra she can go to no lessons and do dance again.
Benjamin had his well check yesterday. He weighs 23 pounds and is 32 inches long. He has two more inches to grow before he can forward face in the car! (Not going to happen till hes 3.5 or 4, though.) He's still not talking which isn't a concern due to our family history and his visual impairment. I'm starting signing with him. I don't expect anything though.
Karen has curly hair!!! I am so surprised. She inherited Aaron's hair. Or at least his wavyness. She's going to look like her grandma. I always thought she had straight hair like me. It is so interesting how different all the kids are!
Saturday, August 2, 2008
A Miracle
I have been reading other things too. Michael Ballam emailed some of his talks to me. I read the first one and learned that music can give order to the brain. It also creates a bridge between the left and right sides of the brain. I want my kids to have music in their lives. The other bit I've been reading is DeMille's packet on Love of Learning I think. I read about educational theories and such. I as mentor to my children need to be in scholar phase and study myself. There is a point where he says that I should teach the kids what is mine. What is mine is different than anybody else. I have stewardship over my children. I can teach what is right for my family at that time. That is so freeing! Science is not mine (yet) and neither is ancient history. Right now what is mine is to learn cursive (better), Greek, to play the organ, and to become better acquainted with the scriptures. Since I'll keep on studying I can go through other studies. Someday math may be mine. (If not, I'll tell Aaron he needs to be mentor for a while.) It is so nice to know that I don't have to subscribe to the public school subjects. My kids will be okay.
I started punishing the children with chores. My house is cleaner already. It is so much better to have the kids do something constructive to make up for their folly rather than just sitting in the corner. Those whose folly is to make a mess get to clean it up and do yet another chore. It is awesome!
Thursday, July 31, 2008
Homeschool meeting
Here's a cute picture for the day.
Recovering
During Sacrament meeting Sunday, Emily handed me her tooth! Wonder what she was doing... Fortunately, all three girls slept in Monday morning so the tooth fairy managed to remember to come.
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Gastroenteritis
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
Middle of the night
Our happy news is that the swamp cooler was fixed with a replacement belt. I never knew a swamp cooler was supposed to be quiet! Sunday we got a thunder storm with showers. It was great. The weather cooled for the first time in months.
Friday, July 25, 2008
My complaints of the day
2. Karen threw up a bunch last night and I didn't know it until morning. (She slept on the basement couch.)
3. The forecast is 100 degrees.
4. The swamp cooler is broken.
5. We have to go to Grantsville for viola lessons and go to the park during.
6. I'm on meds that make me dizzier than usual.
Why does it all have to happen in one day?
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Getting old or too many kids
Happy pioneer day! The children's parade is this evening. Caitlyn is already dressed up in her pioneer dress and bonnet. (I had to get the DUP lady to go down to the museum so I could buy it.) Eric and Emily are planning to ride their bikes. I'm supposed to make Caitlyn's helmet boyish. Eric's is lost and they must have a helmet to ride in the parade.
Thursday, July 17, 2008
The left-out scooter
Emily and Eric traded scooters. (I think) Emily left Eric's scooter (the one that was originally his) at the corner (2 1/5 houses down) for a day or maybe more since she can't remember riding it yesterday. I didn't hear of this till we were pulling into the driveway this afternoon. I sent Emily out to see if it hadn't been stolen. It has. Eric claims he never wants to ride a scooter again now that he has a bike. I have issues with losing stuff. It is losing money to me. My parents bought it though. It was Eric's Christmas gift. Emily is not allowed to ride her scooter(or the one that used to be hers) for a week and after that has to ask Eric's permission to ride it because it is now his even though he doesn't want it. He may change his mind when the bike becomes old or broken.
A piano student didn't show up today. I wonder what happened. It does bother me when I sit around expecting someone and they don't show.
I got a babysitter and went to the dentist. No cavities. Yay!!!
I got an email today about a homeschooling meeting on classical math teaching. I was all set to go when Aaron called to say there are major problems going on with the distribution center. He won't be home in time and I haven't the time to arrange a babysitter. Maybe next month.
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
False alarm
Yesterday I took the three little ones to walmart to get Ben's medication for his infected finger. We had to wait, so we went to the car seat section. They finally got the Nautilus on display. (I have emailed them twice and talked to an employee.) I sat Eric in the seat and he loved it- even with the harness. It looks similar to the Turbobooster and has a cup holder and a cubby in the other arm rest. His radian doesn't have that stuff and it also does not covert to a booster seat. It is very much a car seat. So, now I'm trying to figure out how to come up with the money to buy a Nautilus to make Eric happy with his car seat. I'm also going to make him earn it by keeping his jammies dry. Or maybe by telling the truth. Of course, I still have to get the money somehow.
Monday, July 14, 2008
The latest car seat craziness
http://www.multimac.co.uk/multimac.html
I can turn my 3 seater bench into a four seater. The harness is built to fit 80 pound 12 year olds. My kids will be 12 year old sized somewhere around age 14. It is supposed to be out in the US by the end of the year. I totally want one. My 8 passenger van could be a 10 passenger. I could have my big kids harnessed too. (They have headrests, just not in the picture.)
Friday, July 11, 2008
Driving myself crazy
In other news, Caitlyn started viola lessons today. She did well. The viola is of high quality. (Bought used for $175.) There is a park nearby where the kids had a lot of fun. They are excited for more viola lessons.
Monday, July 7, 2008
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Stressing over activities again
Yesterday I took Ben to the eye doctor. He has prescribed glasses to protect his one good eye. After much discussion with the vision teacher we've decided to start with sunglasses.
Friday, June 27, 2008
A complaint for the day
Our weather forecast is dreary, Sunny, hazy, and hot. I want thunderstorms at least! It is so horribly dry and icky out here.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Playing with car seats again
I hope to keep it all that way for a while. But then tonight I thought I should switch Karen's and Caitlyn's seats so that Emily could sit on the other side and I don't know.... The problem is that Karen's seat sticks out over the bench and a booster seat can't sit there. Previously I had the rear-facing seats lined up in the middle. I liked that, but Eric's seat is finicky.
Tomorrow we are going to Provo area to check out a viola and violin. Caitlyn has set her heart on playing viola and Emily on violin. I was just going to get one for Caitlyn and the violin is cheaper, but she won't go for the violin. I am not exactly sure about getting an instrument for Emily too. She doesn't like to practice and tends to throw things in frustration. I'm thinking. I've been trying to research violins and violas to figure out what to look for and whether I'm getting a good deal or not. I've got some music store addresses and we may go try out fine instruments prior to checking out the used ones. I don't want to invest money in a poor instrument. This is so stressful!
We had an orchestra concert tonight. It was dumb. We had 2 practices a week set up for 2 1/2 weeks. The first week it was cold, then only 4 showed up, so no practice. The second week there were 5 and 6 of us and the director made us play. The last rehearsal we had a decent sized small orchestra. We played Mussorgsky's "Night on Bald Mountain" among other music. Fortunately only a few family members came, so we weren't embarrassed too much. While I like orchestra, I may boycott next summer.
I just realized this evening that I can't stand the terrible threes or whatever you want to call three year olds. I am sick and tired of messes all over everywhere. I don't mind only having one more kid. Then once I'm through- that is it. Will Karen ever be potty trained? She's back to wearing diapers since she is out of panties. She's using them too.
Monday, June 16, 2008
3 across in the tempo
cups and camp
Benjamin prefers to shower himself with the sippy cup. It takes twenty minutes for him to sprinkle every last drop. I finally had enough. He is banned from sippy cups. I prefer him to dump it in one, half second dump. He's actually getting pretty good with a regular cup. The first two kids went to regular cups around the same age for a similar reason. Eric held on to his till 18 months and I think Karen was over two. Some days I wish she still used a sippy cup. That girl is miss accident.
Caitlyn went to Girl Scout camp last week. It was Wednesday to Friday. Each girl had to choose a job. Caitlyn chose "Trail Boss". Later she was awarded for keeping the counselors in line and knowing all the rules. She was acting herself! She left her camera, hat, and coat at camp. Hopefully they'll turn up in the lost and found. She had a great time. Yesterday she showed me how her loose tooth was sideways. I was very mean and pulled it out. She was hoping to keep it till her birthday. It has been very loose for months. Finally, Caitlyn has lost her first tooth. She'll be 7 in two months.
I love shopping for my new to me vehicle. I'm down to two options: Honda Pilot and Toyota Sienna. I'm not even pregnant. I just hate my van. I looked up safety ratings. If I get into a frontal offset collision in the aerostar the steering wheel is likely to pop off rendering the air bag useless. At least the dummy lived. I need them to test with a short dummy that doesn't fit the seat belt.
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Getting caught up
Wednesday was Emily's first dance class. She loved it. I think she'll do dance this fall. I've got a new piano student to pay for dance. She starts Thursday. Saturday was a busy day. We went to the Pioneer Celebration and did a bunch of crafts. I made the kids do the DUP scavenger hunt to get free tickets to the rodeo. Next we went to the train museum. They went on the motorized train three times and played on the big engine while waiting. Why do parks need playgrounds? Just park and old train engine. In the evening I took the kids who desired to the rodeo. That was Karen and Caitlyn. Karen was very wiggly and it is hard to tell whether she really enjoyed it or not, but Caitlyn certainly did despite freezing. She is planning to participate in "Muttin Bustin'" next rodeo. (She wants to ride a sheep.) Eric wants to go to the next rodeo. Today a homeschooler started summer science classes. I dropped the big girls off even though they complained and said they didn't like science. Later their story changed. They love science. Caitlyn goes to girl scout camp tomorrow. I hope my trip out and back is a safe one. I hate driving to unfamiliar places, especially when they ar far away. It should take me and hour and a half to get to the camp. Ben's staph infection is back. I feel like a bad housekeeper and mom. I'll take him back to the doctor tomorrow morning if possible. Orchestra rehearsal started tonight. Or at least it was supposed to. It was freezing and windy, so music was passed out and we went home.
Oh, the car seat news is that the scenera car seat has these pokey things on the bottom where the harness can catch. I checked Karen's seat and found a snag. That compromises the integrity of the harness, so I called Dorel. They are sending me a new harness. In the meantime I am thankful we have a spare carseat and that Karen is under 30 pounds.
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Another Dance show
She only did her ballet at the library. Here is a low quality picture of her tap dance.
Posing beforehand.
The end of the dance pose.
The cat in the tree.
I am wracking my brain over whether Caitlyn will take dance next year or not. The teacher needs to know whether to save her a spot or not. I don't know!!!
Thursday, May 22, 2008
Saving money and such
Caitlyn is signed up for Girl Scout camp! I hope she likes it. I think she will, but will be nervous at first.
Ben's infection has not cleared up after 10 days of medication. Now he's got a new one to take for 7 days. He loves medicine.
Wednesday, May 21, 2008
Setting Apart
I had planned to stay afterwards and enjoy temple square, but forgot the diaper bag. I managed to find the way home going a different route than I am used to.
Saturday, May 17, 2008
Exhilarating feeling of flying
Today was an outing day. We went to Wheeler historic farm for the annual School for the blind day. It was fun to see all the animals. Ben's favorites were the ducks and geese. Then this afternoon I took the girls to see Prince Caspian. It was too scary for Karen and she was a pain for a good part of the movie. Fortunately, we sat next to some ward members with a refillable popcorn bucket. When they had had their fill they handed us the rest. The popcorn kept Karen occupied for quite a while. After the movie we went to KFC- through the drive-thru. When we got home we had a picnic on our lawn. Karen slept. Benjamin just wanted to chase the cat who wanted to eat our chicken. The big girls didn't eat much. I should have gone for a less expensive option.
I asked the girls what was the most fun today. Emily said getting wet by the sprinklers while riding by on her scooter. Caitlyn said being hot at the farm. Apparently we don't have to do much for kids to have fun.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Dance recital
Friday, May 9, 2008
Swimming Adventures
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Trying to find balance
The other news is gardening. I tested my soil. The ph is too high and there is no nitrate. Walmart doesn't sell nitrate anymore because it can be made into a narcotic, so I got some plant food with nitrate. I hope that will work. I've decided to do a small garden again. My garden plot is out of shape and I should have planted last week.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
Gardening
The kids have discovered how fun showers are. They don't know how to properly used a shower curtain, however. We've been going through a lot of towels. Today is laundry day. I won't finish. I was going to hang a load or two outside in order to get more in the wash, but now it is cloudy and a bit chilly.
Ben can climb on chairs. Isn't that exciting? That means I have to clean my kitchen counter and keep the table clear. Lately he has been waking up at 4:30am and screaming for hours. Then he gets tired early.
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Fun
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
Latest Tragedies
I got to attempt to do up Caitlyn for her dance pictures. I am very insufficient as a beauty person. I attempted makeup and did okay with that. Just got mascara spots on her. I utterly failed at making curls. The dance teacher said she had something for the recital.
Sunday I woke up with mastitis. That was really fun- Not. It was like having the flu with a giant bruise. I went to the doctor on Monday and got on meds. I'm feeling fine today and just have a little "bruise".
I think Ben gave me his infection. He has a sinus infection, so he oozes nasty, yucky boogars all day.
I think I've decided the turboboosters are fine for the kids until outgrown. Perhaps by that time something fantastic will be out. That means I don't have to save money for more car seats. Yet.
Instead I'm considering letting Emily take orchestra next year. She'd need a 1/4 violin. Those aren't too pricey, so I could save up for that. Or I could get my own instruments fixed. (What an idea!)
Wednesday, April 16, 2008
School Seating
Karen got to be harnessed in her pink seat after the picture. I picked up the twin seats from a freecycler. I got all applicable info to know the seats are safe for use. They aren't the best. They are the more delux model of the Tribute that Ben has been in. Since the new titan fit in the van, I put the very slim tribute into dh's car. I'm attempting to sell the other titan. Otherwise it would make a decent spare in case Karen pees in her seat again. The pink cover has to hang dry. The titan covers can go in the dryer. I have gone through potty training of 3 kids and not one of them has ever had an accident in the car. Karen is the fourth and just has to be the difficult one. Monday evening she peed all over her car seat, the seat underneath, and the seat belt. Just lovely.
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Life stuff
Ben had his 1 year check up a few weeks ago. (He was nearly 14 months old.) He has made it to 20 pounds, 10 oz! I could forward face him in our nearly expired Graco Tresured CarGo seat. I'm not going to forward face him till he has outgrown the rear-facing seat. There was an article in the recent issue of Pediatrics on why babies should be rear-facing to at least age 2. I asked the ped for a copy and it is in the mail. What I've seen of the article is really good. Eric went in for his 5 year checkup. He is 43 pounds. The doctor said he's doing awesome. I knew that. Yesterday the kids went to the dentist and once again the kids' teeth look great! I am impressed that in 8 years Emily has not had one cavity. I guess either the kids inherited great teeth or we're doing something right.
I've started my indoor garden. I've got onions, oregano, parsley, tomatoes, and pumpkins just coming up. Hopefully I'll do things right this year and get these plants to grow outdoors. I wish I had a rototiller. My elderly gardener friend moved. I need to find another gardener buddy.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Child Passenger Safety
Riding in an automobile is the most dangerous thing our children do and they do it nearly every day. We never know when an accident will occur. 80 percent of automobile accidents happen within 20 minutes from home.[i] Therefore it is imperative that our children ride safely each and every time they are in an automobile.
The first step is to select an appropriate child safety seat. Infants under the age of one year AND weight of 20 pounds must ride rear-facing.[ii] The baby weighing twenty-five pounds at nine months of age must ride rear-facing as does the eighteen pound eighteen month old. Recent research has led the American Academy of Pediatrics to recommend rear-facing to the limit of the seat.[iii] The least expensive rear-facing seat (Cosco Scenera) rear-faces to 35 pounds.[iv] The average child will reach that limit around age three.[v] A rear-facing seat is outgrown in height when the child’s head is one inch from the top of the car seat shell.
Once the child has reached the limit for rear-facing, they must sit in a forward-facing harnessed seat. The majority of forward-facing seats harness to 40 pounds. maximum harness heights vary from 14 inches to 17 inches. A forward-facing seat is outgrown when over the weight limit, the shoulders go above the top useable harness slot, or the ears are above the shell of the seat. The bare minimum to sit in a belt-positioning booster is age 4 AND weighing 40 pounds. Often children this young are not mature enough to sit in a seat belt or he/she may fall over when asleep in the car. Most child safety experts agree that children should be 6 years old before moving to a belt positioning booster due to bone development.[vi] In order to reach this goal, many children should be in a harnessed seat that has a higher weight limit of 50 lbs. or more.[vii]
When it is time for a booster seat, one with a high back should be selected. The head rest should provide side impact protection. Look for a seat with open belt guides so the belt can move freely and not allow slack in front of the child. The back portion of the seat is outgrown once the child’s shoulders are above the highest belt setting. Then it is time to use a backless (low back) booster. When the child can pass the Five Step Test[viii], they may ride with a lap-shoulder belt alone. Remember that every step up in child restraints is a step down in safety.
Eighty percent of child safety seats are installed and used incorrectly.[ix] Be sure to read both the car seat manual and the portion of your vehicle's manual pertaining to installation of car seats. When installed, the seat should not move more than 1 inch at the belt path. The harness should be snug with no twists in the straps. Bulky clothing should not be worn.[x] The chest clip needs to be positioned at armpit level. Do not use an expired car seat. Most expire 6 years after the date of manufacture.[xi] (Found imprinted in the seat’s plastic.) Finally, it is recommended that a Child Passenger Safety Technician review your work. Call 843-2338 to make an appointment with Tooele’s CPST.
Children are our most precious cargo. They look to adults for protection. Let us make wise decisions to keep them safe.
[i] http://stokes.chop.edu/programs/injury/files/PCPS_Charts_Images/dist_from_home_05.pdf
[ii] http://www.car-safety.org/rearface.html
[iii] http://www.aap.org/family/carseatguide.htm
[iv] http://www.carseatsite.com/recommended_car_seats.htm#Infant/Toddler%20Seats_(Convertible_Seats)
[v] http://www.kidsgrowth.com/stages/viewgrowthcharts.cfm?id=BW318
[vi] http://www.kyledavidmiller.org/pages/4211/Car_Seat_Safety:_5-point_Harness_is_Safest.htm
[vii] http://www.kyledavidmiller.org/pages/3137/Our_Recommended_Car_Seats.htm
[viii] http://www.carseat.org/Boosters/634_5step_demo.pdf
[ix] http://www.usa.safekids.org/tier3_cd.cfm?content_item_id=2530&folder_id=680
[x] http://pediatrics.about.com/od/carseats/a/0107_wintercoat.htm
[xi] http://www.childrestraintsafety.com/manufacture-expiration.html
Friday, April 4, 2008
New carseat pictures
Thursday, April 3, 2008
Obsessed
I cleaned the house a bit more today. Tomorrow we'll really go at it. Except I told the kids we'd learn about the parts of a flower tomorrow. I suppose we can take a cleaning break to learn something. Caitlyn wants to make dandelion cookies too. They are healthy and full of vitamins. Maybe we will.
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Another car seat success!
The seats in the car
The kids in the seats in the car
Thats the Graco Treasured Cargo, Sunshine Kids' Radian, and a rear-facing Evenflo Tribute.
In other news, Emily is having issues. It may be the weather. She always has problems when the weather changes. She doesn't seem to understand why she can't play all day- especially outside all day with her hair all messy. This afternoon she started crying about how she didn't like that it wasn't spring anymore. She cried the day she put on shorts and there was snow outside. She cries just about anything. Eric is allergied. He was sent to bed when I was out, so I doubt that he got his allergy medicine. Karen is starting to have allergy issues too. She's going through a phase that I don't like. She seems to be deaf, but I know she can hear. Caitlyn sure is a good kid. She's the only one with no issues going on. She's just going blind. I took her in to the eye doctor this morning. Her vision with her current prescription is 20/70. I shelled out the money for new glasses. I hope no one else needs them any time soon. Between glasses and the cars we are spending a big chunk of our tax return.
Monday, March 31, 2008
Back to history
I'm trying to get back into cooking and cleaning. I made a menu for the week and spent an hour cooking and chopping today. I wish cooking was simpler...I washed all the dishes too and cleaned the living room. I've got to get to everything else.
The kids begged their father to play Nintendo because they wanted to watch. Karen fell asleep on the couch. I think the rest of the kids will be sleeping downstairs too.
We had snow last night. The cat's bowls were iced this morning, so I set out yet another for food. It all melted already. Aaron reported unsafe driving conditions this morning. I'm glad I wasn't in the car with him. It sounded scary.
Eric is having trouble with allergies again. Zyrtec did nothing, so tonight I gave him Allegra. It worked last year. I am hoping it will work again. He's pretty miserable.
Saturday, March 22, 2008
Three across
1994 Ford Tempo
Side view of the car seats. Turboboosters (16 inches) on the outsides and the radian (13 inches at base) in the middle.
The inside view.
The seats we keep in the car as the spare boosters. Emily's old turbobooster and her old Graco Treasured Cargo. (That seat is just aweful in harnessed mode since the adjusters are in back. You have to uninstall the seat to adjust the harness.)
1997 Ford Aerostar, extended version.
Cosco high back booster (17.3 inches), rear-facing Evenflo Tribute (16.5 inches) and the radian.
Tribute forward facing.
The Cosco seat is a bit wide for us. It ended up in the middle row due to more space. I changed things around for every day. This is what I ended up with.